What’s the definition of FREEDOM?
Being free to do anything you want? No reserve? Not being controlled? Do whatever is in your mind without any restriction. Do anything and everything even though is illegal?
I guess we really cannot measure what is freedom.
For some people, freedom, it means free from restriction of parents. Some said, no over powering. Some said, no control. Some said, no laws.
What’s the real meaning of FREEDOM? Let me share something with you a conversation between a man and a woman.
Man: Let’s meet and discuss it after lunch, because I cannot go out with you guys for dinner as my girlfriend not allow me to… =(
Woman: ooo, poor guy, you will missed the fun man!
Man: what to do, she always beef me for going out until so late…
Woman: Seriously not going? There will be your favorite food there though =)
Man: How I wish I can join but noooo… she don’t let me go… =(
Woman: Pity you, sometimes is good to be single, you know!
Man: Ya, girls are very hard to understand sometimes… =(
For me, this man, he is not happy at all for being tie down by the girlfriend.
What is FREEDOM? I think beside talking about free from anything and everything around you, is time to think about the freedom in relationship too.
Do you often of time restrict your partner to attend gatherings with his/her friends? Do you often of time stop your partner to achieve something that he/she wanted to have for long long time ago? Do you complaint a lot when your partner did something that you don’t want him/her to do? Do you? DO YOU?
In every relationship, beside trust, the element of “freedom” is important too. Some adequate “breathing space (aka personal time)” is a really good way to spice up the relationship.
Tie-up them is not a way to show love and caring， it is actually showing them that, you want to throttle the life, the fun and the relationship.
It is wise to let your partner go out and have some sweet time with his/her friends. By doing this, together, let them come home whatever time they want to by trusting them that they are doing good out there. Leave them alone without your calls. Stalking will just ruin everything!!! Give them some private space, and you, enjoy your quiet moment if you are not going out with your friends.
Guys and girls, how you want people to treat you, is all depends on how you treat other people.
Be a wise person for your partner. =)
